I've been thinking some about the idea of the unresolved ending in fiction, though I must say that Chestnut is mostly over it. A smart commenter suggested that series, particularly fantasy series, force you to pause in the middle of the narrative, and it's something to adapt to.
And I think this is an excellent point, but I also wanted to note that in the case of the Jo Walton book, the unresolved ending was an intentional question to the reader: which of these do you think happened? Never to be resolved explicitly by the author, in that book or any other.
Which made it clear to me why it bothered me so: Because both Chestnut and I believe that the narrative world in any given book is real.
Perhaps it's not in this "plane," and it's true that we can never enter it except through the magical conduit of a book. But—I have to face facts. I believe everything I read. In some part of me, I feel that all these fictional worlds exist, and I get tastes of them through books: Narnia exists, Wonderland exists, all of it exists, but you can only get these quick book-length glimpses. And when an author says "You decide," it seems to claim (or acknowledge, depending on your belief system) that these worlds aren't real, that what is said to happen is just based on the author's whim, not on actual fictional events in the other world.
I realize that this is maybe a little crazy? But it feels to me, in my heart of hearts (should such a place as that really exist), true.
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Yes! Yes! Exactly!
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Have you read Life of Pi? I felt that way about its ending.
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No, it made me too mad that it was a retread of someone else’s idea. Though maybe I just get made too often about literature generally.
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OK, not mentioning the J name this time…in order not to be blocked! I was thinking about the book The Giver, which both me and my mom read and both of us thought had pretty clear endings, but on discussing, each of us thought that pretty clear ending was something different! So, maybe these so-called unresolved endings aren’t actually unresolved in the minds of every reader? The author has set the path and invited the reader to walk down a certain way, but how far we go really depends upon us. For those readers who see endless possibilities, maybe it will always seem unresolved, but for those who want to see a certain outcome, maybe that’s the one that will automatically unfold in his or her mind? I don’t know; it’s just a thought that occurred to me. 🙂
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I also believe everything I read. How nice to know that I am among friends. I think there are some books that definitely end in such a way that it feels unfinished, and others like Justine noted has an ambiguous ending but it lends itself to what I want to happen nicely so I can finish it in my head. The unfinished ones make me feel cheated for sure.
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